Tell 'em why you mad son...or don't

I'm not really one to get mad at people and when I do, ya dun done something sheisty, in my eyes at least. This came up in conversation the other day and debate on what's the best way to deal with your annoyance with someone.
I, personally, choose to ignore and cut contact with a person for a period of time, as opposed to lashing out on the person or letting them know why I'm upset. Dumb? Maybe, but that's just how I do. (Unless you are a repeat offender, then I'll be sending you a nice, loooooooong e-mail) If you're a person that I speak to frequently and one day I just stop reaching out to you,or if you contact me and I give you two word answers, odds are, momma's not a happy camper.
Others say, its best to just tell 'em why you mad son. Just tell 'em.

Topic is open for discussion. All opinions of the non-psycho, non in need of anger management are welcome.
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